From an Esquire piece on Mr. Rogers. 2 things:
1) It has to be in everything you do. You have to think about who you are, and who you want to be, and what you want to be about, and you have to put that into practice and you have to sew it through each and every thing you do, you have to find the cracks in your life and fill them with this thing that you want to be.
2) You have to look at what you do. You have to look at the cracks in your life and see how you have filled them, you have to look at each and every thing that you do. This, I submit, this is who you are.